The Match Maker Services
At The Match Factor, we are wholly committed to working with you as our client to achieve your unique and specific goal of finding your long-term committed partner in love and life.
No magical formulas or mystical techniques are used here. In fact, you will be the creator of your own successes with our professional help to support you throughout all of our relationship-building services. We anticipate that this journey will take anywhere from 9-12 months, maybe longer, so please don’t be in a rush to reach your intended goal.
Rushing often misses key steps and milestones in any intimate relationship-building process; a process, not a few events glued together.
Today’s dating experiences often move at lightning speed before learning if this person is really right for you. “Love bombing”, a potential red flag shouldn’t be ignored but safely explored and processed. Investing in someone else to hold that intimate space in your heart can come at a high cost if you’ve not taken the time to get to know that person and build trust together. Relationship wounds come at a high price.
Most times, we won’t recommend you “jump into the deep end of the pool” too quickly. Instead, slowing that dating and relationship-building process down while doing the work allows sufficient time to learn about each other and hopefully builds a healthy and dynamic relationship. Part of our services are to address any issues in couples’ counselling to help the couple get over hurdles in their developing relationship in that first year. Wisdom suggests it is beneficial to be fully engaged in the process every step of the way while making significant decisions with care, attention, safety, and professional support. So, any “red, orange or yellow flags” that are discovered are addressed respectfully, confidentially, and safely for those involved.
Our services are built to work with you throughout your first full year; extending services are an option and can be reviewed individually. Each person’s process is uniquely “theirs”, and yours to experience throughout our process. We want to learn from you to help match you well from our client database.

Phase 1
Relationship Preparedness (RP)
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Relationship Preparedness (RP)
4 months from your intake date)
- 1 Bio-Psycho-Social Assessment with a Relationship History (90-min)
- 1 Treatment Planning Session (60-min) with a Progress Review throughout
- 7 Individual Counselling Therapy Sessions (60-min) to work on your barriers, concerns challenges and goals; your treatment plan follows you through Phase 1, 2 and 3
- 3 Psychoeducational Sessions (75-min)
- Personalized Targeted Issues (e.g.) Grief & Loss, History of Unhealthy Relationships, Rejection, Abandonment, Invalidation, Fears. Trauma, Abuse, Addictions, Betrayal, Trust, Self-Worth and self-Confidence.
- Boundaries, Assertiveness
- Healthy Communication Skills, The 6 Love Languages
- Attachment Styles
- Gottman – The 5 Relationship Phases
- Flags and Smoking Guns
- Relationship Hierarchy
- Barriers to Reaching Your Goals
- Intimacy and Sex
- Strengths and Challenges
- Gottman Relationship Tools and Techniques
- Personalized Dating Strategies
- Review Your Preparedness for Dating
- Building Your Personal Biodata Profile for Phase 2; Your Dating Framework

Phase 2
Dating Connections (DC)
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Dating Connections (DC)
(4 months from Completion of Phase 1)
- 8 Individual Counselling Therapy Sessions (60-min)
- 3 Supportive Evaluation Sessions (60-min)
- 3 Psychoeducational Sessions (60-min)
- 1 Progress Review
- Flags & Smoking Guns (60-min)
- Your Individualized Dating/Matching Journey
- Conflict Resolution
- Blending Lifestyles, Responsibilities
- Relationship Ruptures & Repairs, Attachment Styles
- Dealbreakers, Hidden Barriers
- Narcissistic Personality Style Concerns
- Gottman Relationship Tools and Techniques
- Intimacy and Sex
- The Sound Relationship House Model
- Healthy Communication
- Who Am I? What’s Missing?
- Revising Your Bio Data Profile
- Letting Go Respectfully / Moving Ahead Strongly and Confidently

Phase 3
Couples’ Relationship Work (CRW)
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Couples’ Relationship Work (CRW)
(4 months from completion of Phase 2)
- 1 Treatment Plan Update (75-min)
- 8 Couples’ Counselling Therapy Sessions or Combining Individual Sessions (75-min)
- 4 Group Psycho-Educational Sessions (75-min)
- 1 Relationship Assessment Review (75-min each)
- Gottman Tools and Techniques
- Trust, Commitment, Safety, Honesty, Privacy
- Healthy Boundaries
- Betrayal, Grief and Loss
- Relapsing Behavioural Patterns (e.g.: anger, addiction, control, trauma, abuse)
- Healthier Communication
- Conflict Resolution, Compromise, Flooding, Attunement
- Dealbreakers: The 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse
- Unhealthy Habits/Patterns, Behavioural Concerns
- Couples in Gridlock, Understanding Perceptions
- Your Mental and Emotional Wellness, Healthier Communication
- Narcissistic Personality Style
- The Blame Game
- Relationship Dynamics
- Intimacy and Sex
- You Are On the Same Team
- Relationship Hierarchy
- Blending Your Lives: Children, Family, Friends, Finances, Careers
- Family Dynamics, Relationship Histories, Trauma or Abuse Histories
- Supporting the Sound Relationship House
- Relationship Ruptures and Repairs, Attachment Styles
- Letting Go Respectfully / Moving Forward Strongly and Confidently
- Farewell to the Program, or
- Phase 4 Option
About Megan Kennedy
Megan’s Credentials: MPCC, RTC, MTC, RCS, RPC, CCPCPR CPCA#1227, CCPCP#1260, ACCT#2028, ACTA #2956
Bio Energetic Practitioner
Contact
Phone: 587-717-1711
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